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The Ring

Above: the ring, made by Sean, my sweetheart of nine years and given to me one week ago, on the beach at Ashbridges Bay, at midnight, while the remnants of Hurricane Ike whipped by.

The awesome Michele, who counts metalworking among her many talents, had invited him by her studio to learn some of the craft and create a piece of jewellery that day. Acting on a deep impulse he decided to make this for me - knowing that even though I never wear jewellery, I’m a big DIY nerd, and if there was one thing I’d never want to take off, it would be something made by his own hands. He made me a freaking ring. For about three days I couldn’t look down at it without starting to cry again.

It was pitch black. We had to use the light from my cel phone to see it. We sat with the hot winds buffeting us, eating pretzels and watching birds fly backwards. And then we got caught in a sudden downpour as we pedalled up Woodbine*, and ate terrible

breakfast sandwiches

Brekwiches at an all-night coffee shop. I spent equal time crying and laughing my head off.

The long and the short of it: we are engaged. Life just got a bit stranger and much more wonderful.

* Oh, did I mention? We got bikes a few weeks ago. It’s been great, and the wounds from our respective first accidents are almost healed!

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Woo! Congratulations! (And congratulations from Nick, who is looking over my shoulder, too!)

Ring made by boyfriend is awesome. Sooooo much better than a diamond.

Posted by Peggy on 21 September 2008 at 1:05 PM

Congratulations Eli! Such wonderful news.

Posted by Katie on 21 September 2008 at 6:42 PM

Wow Eli! Congratulations to you both! What a beautiful thing.

Posted by Rami on 21 September 2008 at 8:28 PM

wow, congrats!! an awesome piece of art and even awesomer news. :)

Posted by sarah on 22 September 2008 at 12:18 PM

Awww! Congrats to both of you on your engaygement!! That ring is gorgeous. Sniff.

Posted by roro on 23 September 2008 at 4:34 PM

Oh WOW! Congratulations to the both of you! If ever there were a match…

Posted by Muffy St. Bernard on 30 September 2008 at 4:10 PM

i can’t believe i missed this post! i’m so happy that you’re happy with the ring, and that i could help be a part of your wonderful journey. sean was very stealthy about the making of the ring, totally didn’t let on at all!

and we still have to get you into the studio - i’m pretty flexible at the end of this month/december!

take care, and congrats again!

Posted by michele on 10 November 2008 at 6:46 PM

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